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Communities In Schools of Miami Site Coordinator Nadege Delinois-Jean.

For Nadege Delinois-Jean, the journey to becoming a site coordinator at Communities In Schools of Miami started behind the deli counter of a supermarket. While taking orders, the part-timer chatted with a customer about the work he did as the head of a grants program at Delinois-Jean’s alma mater, Florida International University. Delinois-Jean, who has a degree in public administration and who had always wanted to be a teacher, says she followed up the chance meeting with a phone call as soon as she took her next break.

“I called right away, and after I came in to meet with him, I ended up getting a job at the university.” The position was with Robert Vos, who helmed GEAR UP Edison, a program that provided grants to help increase the number of low-income students getting into to college. Delinois-Jean worked with the local chapter of GEAR UP for seven years, and it was what led her to Communities In Schools. After her work at GEAR UP, she spent two years working for Communities In Schools as a data specialist at North Miami Middle School. When a site coordinator position became available in 2010, she got a call to apply.

As a site coordinator at North Miami Middle School, Delinois-Jean works with approximately 100 students to ensure they receive targeted and sustained services. One of the programs she’s most proud of expanding at the school is a mentoring group that serves boys and girls in all grades. She works with the City of North Miami mentoring program to recruit new mentors. Roughly 10 civic employees from the city arrive every Wednesday and along with 23 students, fill the school’s media center from 8:00 to 9:00 a.m.

“Kids need mentors. They need people to talk to,” said Delinois-Jean. “The mentors come every week and you can see the kids opening up. The ones that were in trouble are doing great. I’m very happy with the program and the results because I see the progress the kids are making and I see improvements in their grades and conduct.”

And her latest project, a partnership with Sabrena O’Keefe, assistant professor at the Center for Leadership & Service at Florida International University (FIU), is the Academy of Leaders. It includes 12 FIU students working twice a month with North Miami Middle School students to teach them life skills.

“Being a site coordinator gives me a chance to help people,” said Delinois-Jean. “I love to help people, I love to empower people. I think it’s in my blood. My happiness comes from seeing others succeed.”

Mayor of Pittsburgh and Cindy Bostick

Pittsburgh Mayor Luke Ravenstahl and Mentoring Coordinator Cindy Bostick. Ravenstahl serves as a sixth-grade mentor.

Cindy Bostick can tick off an impressive list of people who serve as mentors in Pittsburgh – the city’s mayor, lawyers, doctors, retired teachers   and the president of a local community college, just to name a few. As the mentoring coordinator for Communities In Schools of Pittsburgh-Allegheny County, it’s her job to make sure she is matching the students she serves with the best mentors possible.

Bostick has worked for the Pennsylvania affiliate for more than 20 years, and she currently manages nearly 100 mentors across two Pittsburgh public schools as part of the “Be a 6th Grade Mentor” program. This program is an initiative among Pittsburgh Public Schools, The Mentoring Partnership of Southwestern PA, the Youth Futures Commission and United Way of Allegheny County. Mentors meet with their mentees for 45 minutes a week from October through May, helping them to build the skills they need to achieve.

“We want to help students develop career dreams and aspirations, and to understand the relevance of their academics and how it will impact their future,” said Bostick.

The mentors have a guidebook with different topics to discuss with the students, such as developing goals, doing well in school, and discussing what the mentors do for a career and what it was like when they were in school. Some days, the mentors may just listen to students and help them resolve any challenges or concerns they have.

Bostick only asks for a one-year commitment from the mentors, but she said that about 50 percent of the mentors stay with their mentees through eighth grade.

“We have seen mentors say, ‘I can’t walk away – I am invested in this child’s life. I am coming back next year,’” said Bostick. “It’s amazing to see the different walks of life people come from to spend 45 minutes a week with a child to sit, talk and help them dream big.”

One of the most challenging parts of Bostick’s role is making sure the mentor-mentee matches work. When they do, incredible transformation can take place.

Bostick remembers a student named Jesse. Referred to the program to work on his social skills, Jesse was extremely shy, barely nodding and shaking his head in response to questions. Bostick matched him with a woman who owned a consulting company and was ready to give Jesse all the support he needed. She worked with Jesse for three years, and in that time he not only started speaking frequently, but took on a leadership role in his eighth grade student council.

“These students are like little tulips. Sometimes they are all closed up and then – they blossom.”

New Beginnings in Scotland County

Periodically, Beyond the Classroom shares blog posts from affiliates, mentors, partners, and education and nonprofit leaders that inform our work and guide our mission to help students succeed. Today’s post was originally published on Communities In Schools of North Carolina’s blog, and provides a glimpse into the relationship between a mentor and a student and how they’re enriching each other’s lives.

Communities In Schools understands how influential a positive role model is in a student’s life. Mentors help guide students towards making healthy, productive choices and offer nonjudgmental encouragement. We are dedicated to providing the young people we serve with the one-on-one relationships they need to succeed.

Jasmine and Mrs. Albright

Jasmine Lane and her mentor, Louann Albright. Photo courtesy Communities In Schools of North Carolina.

Sometimes things come together at the right time, for the right people and the right reason. Communities In Schools of Scotland County has been in two schools for just over a year. Already, there are success stories from the mentoring program that is so essential to Communities In Schools’ success.

Jasmine Lane, an eighth grader at Carver Middle School in Laurel Hill, N.C., believes Communities In Schools is a good program that is helping her in many ways. Since joining Communities In Schools, Jasmine feels better about herself and more assured that people are out there to help. This positive outlook is new for Jasmine. During the sixth grade she was suspended from school frequently, argued with her teachers and got into fights, but these days Jasmine has a much better attitude. She no longer gets suspended from school, is involved in sports, and has become a leader, setting a great example for other Communities In Schools students.

One reason for Jasmine’s success is the time she spends with her mentor, Mrs. Louann Albright, one of her seventh grade teachers, who is now an important friend.  When asked about Mrs. Albright, CTE Computer Skills teacher at Carver, Jasmine replies, “I can tell her stuff. She is like a mother to me, a shoulder that I need. Mrs. Albright sees the best in me when nobody else does.” Jasmine is thankful that Mrs. Albright pushes her but doesn’t judge her.

Mrs. Albright, who has been a teacher for 18 years, describes her year-long mentoring relationship with Jasmine as a positive, eye-opening experience that has given her a different perspective about all of her students. “I see more clearly that everybody doesn’t have the same experience growing up and that we all have different backgrounds. They say it takes a village to raise a child and I think it really does. I believe every adult should add something positive to a child’s life,” said Mrs. Albright.

Mrs. Albright involves Jasmine in activities outside of school and even invites her own daughter along as well. Besides school, Jasmine goes over to Mrs. Albright’s home or they will go out to eat; they have even gotten manicures together. Their next planned adventure includes a movie and ice cream. Mrs. Albright says her eight-year-old daughter loves Jasmine like a big sister, and that Jasmine feels the sister relationship just the same. It is clear both lives have been enriched by the mentoring program.

Another person in Jasmine’s life that makes sure Jasmine is on track is Mr. James McLean, her Communities In Schools Site Coordinator at Carver Middle School. “I am so grateful to Mrs. Albright for being a wonderful mentor to Jasmine,” said Mr. McLean. “I am going to see to it that Jasmine Lane is the first child in her family to graduate from high school and accomplish great things.”

Mr. McLean thinks Mrs. Albright and Jasmine are a great match and is excited about all that Jasmine has already accomplished. He sees a bright future for her, believing that sky’s the limit for this young lady.

Jasmine Lane is happy to have Mr. McLean and Mrs. Albright in her life and is thankful that Communities In Schools of Scotland County is in her school.

Innovations in Mentoring

Today’s blog post is by Communities In Schools Associate Director of Federal Grants and Initiatives, Megan Robinson.

Communities In Schools staff at national mentoring summit

Left to right: Danya Perry of Communities In Schools of North Carolina, Lori Fickling of Communities In Schools of North Texas, Jade Parker of Communities In Schools of New Orleans, Megan Robinson of Communities In Schools national office, LaShawn Johnson of the national office, and LaTousha Daniels of Communities In Schools of Miami.

As we wrap up National Mentoring Month, I hope you’ve taken time to thank someone who has helped mentor you, or offered your own time to mentor someone who could use extra support or guidance. Mentoring can have a significant impact on young people’s determination and drive to stay in school. This message resonated for me during MENTOR’s National Mentoring Summit held in Washington, D.C. January 24-25. Nearly 650 leaders from youth-serving organizations, government, research and business came together to share innovative program models and research findings to connect young people with mentors so they can stay on the path to successful adulthood.

The Communities In Schools national office was invited to participate in the Summit as a presenter for the Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention’s (OJJDP) Multi-State Mentoring Initiative. OJJDP awarded Communities In Schools a $2.5 million grant during the Fall of 2011 and we currently have 10 affiliates partnering on the project. Several affiliates, including our technical assistance provider Communities In Schools of North Carolina, joined me at the Summit last week. I was excited to present the accomplishments of our OJJDP affiliates, alongside Communities In Schools of Cape Fear, who presented a unique peer mentoring program that’s being supported by the OJJDP grant.

Our OJJDP partnering affiliates have made over 900 mentoring matches under the grant and we hope to demonstrate to the country how the Communities In Schools model strengthens mentoring relationships and leads to deeper connections between students and their mentors. When Communities In Schools site coordinators provide case management that includes things like parental engagement activities and ensuring basic needs like nutrition and medical care are met, mentors can focus on what they do best – being trusted friends, confidantes and champions to our students.

The OJJDP grant is allowing affiliates to build and expand innovative program designs including school-to-work initiatives for high school students, transition programs for adjudicated youth, and STEM projects with middle school and university students. The MENTOR Summit provided an engaging platform for us to share our efforts and learn from other programs around the country.

Thank you to our OJJDP partnering affiliates for recruiting and training hundreds of dedicated mentors and for building creative mentoring programs that are helping students reach their goals.

Impacting Each Other’s Lives

Today’s blog post is by Communities In Schools of Wilkes County, N.C. Executive Director Glendora Yarbrough.

National Mentoring Month offers us a great chance to reflect on the importance of a one-one-one relationship with a caring adult. Too often, today’s students face the world without this basic resource: an individual to turn to for support, encouragement and guidance on making positive life choices.

Communities In Schools of Wilkes County’s longest standing program seeks to tackle this need. Having started in 1983 as the Governor’s One-on-One program and developed into the Friends of Youth program, the program provides mentors who spend two to four hours a week with their mentees.

The benefits these students receive from their volunteer mentors are impossible to overlook. The following details one very successful match.

Josh and Gary building boxes

Josh and his mentor Gary building cold boxes for a garden.

Gary and Josh were matched in 2006. Gary, a retiree, learned of the program through a friend and fellow volunteer, Paul. His experience with Little League, his church’s Sunday school, and the local Boy Scouts chapter made him an ideal volunteer – and he entered the program highly praised.

Josh just so happened to be the brother of Paul’s mentee, and similarly it was his sibling’s involvement – and his mother’s encouragement – that sparked his interest in the program. In the beginning, 10-year-old Josh was shy and slow to open up. He would later describe this period of his life as directionless. The concept of having and working towards a future seemed “crazy” and confusing. His focus instead was limited to the day-to-day, wherein he did little more than coast.

Gary admits that his first impression of Josh was merely “Oh my goodness, how will I ever be able to entertain a 10-year-old?” Not only were all his children grown, their interests always centered on sports. This was not so for Josh.

With help from Paul and Josh’s brother, the relationship developed and the two enjoyed many activities together – from regular trips for ice cream, to visits to the local zoo.

Over the years, Josh moved several times and had many different living situations. Gary has remained by his side, a constant and valuable friend.

Over six years into their match, the two continue to meet regularly. Gary encourages the now-flourishing Josh to have his own relationships and activities – which he does. Josh, however, says sometimes he would rather spend time with his confidant.

“I know that if I need anything, I can call Gary,” he remarks fondly.

Josh says that during his adolescence, his career interests moved from zoology and paleontology towards orthopedic surgery. His brother’s struggle with asthma encouraged a desire to help those in need – as did Gary’s living example of “giving forward.”

With Gary’s help, Josh says he’s been learning responsibility, organization and the importance of a good GPA. Gary remarks that Josh has blossomed into a natural leader.

“My hope for Josh is that he will reach his potential,” Gary says. “And it’s big. I want him to start thinking about the next step.”

Above all things, the mentor is sure to note that Josh made just as much of an impact on him. When asked what advice he would give to anyone interested in becoming a mentor, he states:

“Don’t be afraid. The Communities In Schools office is always there as a resource, and can help you when you are confronted with situations and life experiences in which you may have little to no knowledge. Communities In Schools is there to help.”