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Frank Hernandez

Site Coordinator Frank Hernandez knows that a key to feeling comfortable in a new place is having a friend.

Communities In Schools of Greater Phoenix, Ariz., Site Coordinator Frank Hernandez is passionate about giving students the opportunity to develop their potential. For the past two years, he has been helping students at Desert View Elementary School succeed inside and outside the classroom by organizing after-school sports camps, food backpack programs and even holiday assistance programs, to make sure families have Thanksgiving dinners and Christmas presents.

But Hernandez was recently presented with a new, unique challenge. Transitional housing was built next to the school last year and the site coordinator was suddenly faced with securing resources for seven children from Kenya, Somalia and the Democratic Republic of the Congo.

“The kids had been in refugee camps in their countries,” Hernandez said. “Because of that, it’s like they are starting out brand-new at school, no matter what their age.”

The site coordinator has been working diligently to help the students adjust to their new classroom environment. For instance, a five-year-old from the new housing was recently enrolled at Desert View and was, as Hernandez described, “scared out of his mind.”

“The boy was thrown into school and didn’t know what school was,” he said.

But Hernandez knew that a key to feeling comfortable in a new place is having a friend. The site coordinator connected the young student with some older refugee children who were already familiar with the school’s structure and could relate to the new student’s anxiety. Hernandez let the five-year-old stay in a fourth-grade classroom with a student who could act as a buddy until he felt safe, comfortable and understood how everything at Desert View worked. Then, over a period of two weeks, the site coordinator slowly weaned the five-year-old from the older students’ classroom until he was able to thrive in the kindergarten classroom.

Hernandez has also taken his work with refugee students beyond school hours. The site coordinator has reached out to families and is helping them acclimate to life in Phoenix by connecting them with needed resources such as food, clothing and personal care items.

“I really enjoy being a site coordinator at this school,” Hernandez said. “We have a small school and one of the things I try to do is to create the most positive culture I can, to help people when they’re outside of their comfort zones.”

What We’re Reading

Screenshot from the film "Bully." Photo courtesy AP/The Weinstein Company

Welcome to our new Friday blog feature! “What We’re Reading” is a glimpse into blog posts, articles and other news items that the national office team is checking out every week to inform our work with students across America. Share what you’re reading in the comments section!

Education Week: Does it sound like there’s a disconnect? New research from the American Association of University Women reveals that 14 of the 20 largest school districts in the nation reported no incidences of bullying or harassment. “These reports of no sexual harassment and bullying happening in a school district are impossible to believe,” AAUW Executive Director Linda D. Hallman said. “It just does not sync with what we know to be the unfortunate reality for many school children in this nation.” Bullying may be under-reported and overlooked as a cause of academic failure. We encourage everyone to view the new documentary, Bully – and then get involved to ensure zero tolerance of this debilitating problem within their schools and communities.

GOOD: A student’s education should not have to end because he or she can’t afford college. But with college costs continuing to skyrocket and graduates facing crippling student debt, policymakers wonder: what can we do to make college free for anyone who can’t pay? Thankfully, some states, such as California and Michigan, are already taking the initiative and creating cost-effective ways for students to afford a post-secondary education.

Huffington Post: In his latest blog post, Communities In Schools President Dan Cardinali writes about current education reform policy and how it tends to neglect one major factor: the role of a caring adult in the lives of students. There is an expectation that teachers will fulfill this role, but teachers cannot go it alone; such expectations potentially set teachers and students up for failure. Relationships with caring adults, including mentors and Communities In Schools site coordinators, can help ensure that young people have what they need – both in and outside the classroom – to unleash their potential.

Honoring a Lifetime of Service

Today’s blog post comes from Communities In Schools of Charlotte-Mecklenburg Volunteer Coordinator Angela Yoo.

In 25 years, Mike Munao mentored and tutored more than 30 students, giving over 1,000 volunteer hours.

In this season of gratitude, Communities In Schools of Charlotte-Mecklenburg is thankful for the dedication and commitment of Mike Munao, who has recently celebrated his 25th anniversary as a volunteer! Mike began as a volunteer tutor and was one of our first volunteers in Charlotte. Over the years he has tutored and mentored more than 30 different students at two schools, giving over 1,000 volunteer hours. Mike also served as a board member of the local affiliate from 1992 to 1993.

When I asked what Mike thought made him successful as a volunteer, he said, “My philosophy of tutoring is three-fold: to help my students understand the material required for them to advance, to provide examples in real life as to how this newly acquired information will apply, and to make sure they have a positive role model in life.” View full article »

Today’s Site Coordinator Snapshot is by Network Communications Specialist Erica Rafferty.

Nancy Essary

Communities In Schools Site Coordinator Nancy Essary can sum up the value of her work in a single moment.

It’s funny how a single moment can shape your point of view, your beliefs and sometimes your life. For Nancy Essary, a site coordinator with Communities In Schools of East Texas for the past five and a half years, that moment happened on the first day of school this year.

Originally, my post about Nancy Essary was about how she spends every summer with Communities In Schools delivering lunches across Diana, Texas to low-income students whose next meal is not always certain. An undeniably powerful story, you can watch a video of Nancy telling the story at the bottom of this post.

But when she told me about the first day of school this year, and of a single, simple moment that she will never forget, I knew that, too, was a story to be shared. View full article »

Damien Coran and students

Site Coordinator Damien Coran (center) believes the most important part of his work is establishing relationships.

For Damien Coran, being a Communities In Schools of Omaha, Neb. site coordinator is all about establishing relationships. It starts with school principals and teachers, and getting their buy-in on programs. It includes reaching out to parents and the community, and inviting them to partner with him on their children’s success. But the most rewarding relationship is the one he has with his students.

“My favorite things are hugs and high-fives,” says Damien. “I see the kids I’ve worked with all the time, everywhere I go.”

Damien is not exactly new to relationship building. The University of Nebraska grad, who originally wanted to be a teacher, has been working with kids from preschool to college as well as families and the community. His career path has led him into the nonprofit world, and work he finds fulfilling.

“I’ve always been about helping people,” he says. When he found out about the site coordinator job, it was his “Aha moment.”

“I thought: Communities In Schools is me. If anybody should be a site coordinator, I should.”

Damien also shared that he himself was once headed toward becoming a high school dropout until someone steered him the right direction. This motivates him to making a difference in students’ lives.

“My deepest goal when I started was to find kids like me.” View full article »