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New Beginnings in Scotland County

Periodically, Beyond the Classroom shares blog posts from affiliates, mentors, partners, and education and nonprofit leaders that inform our work and guide our mission to help students succeed. Today’s post was originally published on Communities In Schools of North Carolina’s blog, and provides a glimpse into the relationship between a mentor and a student and how they’re enriching each other’s lives.

Communities In Schools understands how influential a positive role model is in a student’s life. Mentors help guide students towards making healthy, productive choices and offer nonjudgmental encouragement. We are dedicated to providing the young people we serve with the one-on-one relationships they need to succeed.

Jasmine and Mrs. Albright

Jasmine Lane and her mentor, Louann Albright. Photo courtesy Communities In Schools of North Carolina.

Sometimes things come together at the right time, for the right people and the right reason. Communities In Schools of Scotland County has been in two schools for just over a year. Already, there are success stories from the mentoring program that is so essential to Communities In Schools’ success.

Jasmine Lane, an eighth grader at Carver Middle School in Laurel Hill, N.C., believes Communities In Schools is a good program that is helping her in many ways. Since joining Communities In Schools, Jasmine feels better about herself and more assured that people are out there to help. This positive outlook is new for Jasmine. During the sixth grade she was suspended from school frequently, argued with her teachers and got into fights, but these days Jasmine has a much better attitude. She no longer gets suspended from school, is involved in sports, and has become a leader, setting a great example for other Communities In Schools students.

One reason for Jasmine’s success is the time she spends with her mentor, Mrs. Louann Albright, one of her seventh grade teachers, who is now an important friend.  When asked about Mrs. Albright, CTE Computer Skills teacher at Carver, Jasmine replies, “I can tell her stuff. She is like a mother to me, a shoulder that I need. Mrs. Albright sees the best in me when nobody else does.” Jasmine is thankful that Mrs. Albright pushes her but doesn’t judge her.

Mrs. Albright, who has been a teacher for 18 years, describes her year-long mentoring relationship with Jasmine as a positive, eye-opening experience that has given her a different perspective about all of her students. “I see more clearly that everybody doesn’t have the same experience growing up and that we all have different backgrounds. They say it takes a village to raise a child and I think it really does. I believe every adult should add something positive to a child’s life,” said Mrs. Albright.

Mrs. Albright involves Jasmine in activities outside of school and even invites her own daughter along as well. Besides school, Jasmine goes over to Mrs. Albright’s home or they will go out to eat; they have even gotten manicures together. Their next planned adventure includes a movie and ice cream. Mrs. Albright says her eight-year-old daughter loves Jasmine like a big sister, and that Jasmine feels the sister relationship just the same. It is clear both lives have been enriched by the mentoring program.

Another person in Jasmine’s life that makes sure Jasmine is on track is Mr. James McLean, her Communities In Schools Site Coordinator at Carver Middle School. “I am so grateful to Mrs. Albright for being a wonderful mentor to Jasmine,” said Mr. McLean. “I am going to see to it that Jasmine Lane is the first child in her family to graduate from high school and accomplish great things.”

Mr. McLean thinks Mrs. Albright and Jasmine are a great match and is excited about all that Jasmine has already accomplished. He sees a bright future for her, believing that sky’s the limit for this young lady.

Jasmine Lane is happy to have Mr. McLean and Mrs. Albright in her life and is thankful that Communities In Schools of Scotland County is in her school.

Frank Hernandez

Site Coordinator Frank Hernandez knows that a key to feeling comfortable in a new place is having a friend.

Communities In Schools of Greater Phoenix, Ariz., Site Coordinator Frank Hernandez is passionate about giving students the opportunity to develop their potential. For the past two years, he has been helping students at Desert View Elementary School succeed inside and outside the classroom by organizing after-school sports camps, food backpack programs and even holiday assistance programs, to make sure families have Thanksgiving dinners and Christmas presents.

But Hernandez was recently presented with a new, unique challenge. Transitional housing was built next to the school last year and the site coordinator was suddenly faced with securing resources for seven children from Kenya, Somalia and the Democratic Republic of the Congo.

“The kids had been in refugee camps in their countries,” Hernandez said. “Because of that, it’s like they are starting out brand-new at school, no matter what their age.”

The site coordinator has been working diligently to help the students adjust to their new classroom environment. For instance, a five-year-old from the new housing was recently enrolled at Desert View and was, as Hernandez described, “scared out of his mind.”

“The boy was thrown into school and didn’t know what school was,” he said.

But Hernandez knew that a key to feeling comfortable in a new place is having a friend. The site coordinator connected the young student with some older refugee children who were already familiar with the school’s structure and could relate to the new student’s anxiety. Hernandez let the five-year-old stay in a fourth-grade classroom with a student who could act as a buddy until he felt safe, comfortable and understood how everything at Desert View worked. Then, over a period of two weeks, the site coordinator slowly weaned the five-year-old from the older students’ classroom until he was able to thrive in the kindergarten classroom.

Hernandez has also taken his work with refugee students beyond school hours. The site coordinator has reached out to families and is helping them acclimate to life in Phoenix by connecting them with needed resources such as food, clothing and personal care items.

“I really enjoy being a site coordinator at this school,” Hernandez said. “We have a small school and one of the things I try to do is to create the most positive culture I can, to help people when they’re outside of their comfort zones.”

What We’re Reading

Screenshot from the film "Bully." Photo courtesy AP/The Weinstein Company

Welcome to our new Friday blog feature! “What We’re Reading” is a glimpse into blog posts, articles and other news items that the national office team is checking out every week to inform our work with students across America. Share what you’re reading in the comments section!

Education Week: Does it sound like there’s a disconnect? New research from the American Association of University Women reveals that 14 of the 20 largest school districts in the nation reported no incidences of bullying or harassment. “These reports of no sexual harassment and bullying happening in a school district are impossible to believe,” AAUW Executive Director Linda D. Hallman said. “It just does not sync with what we know to be the unfortunate reality for many school children in this nation.” Bullying may be under-reported and overlooked as a cause of academic failure. We encourage everyone to view the new documentary, Bully – and then get involved to ensure zero tolerance of this debilitating problem within their schools and communities.

GOOD: A student’s education should not have to end because he or she can’t afford college. But with college costs continuing to skyrocket and graduates facing crippling student debt, policymakers wonder: what can we do to make college free for anyone who can’t pay? Thankfully, some states, such as California and Michigan, are already taking the initiative and creating cost-effective ways for students to afford a post-secondary education.

Huffington Post: In his latest blog post, Communities In Schools President Dan Cardinali writes about current education reform policy and how it tends to neglect one major factor: the role of a caring adult in the lives of students. There is an expectation that teachers will fulfill this role, but teachers cannot go it alone; such expectations potentially set teachers and students up for failure. Relationships with caring adults, including mentors and Communities In Schools site coordinators, can help ensure that young people have what they need – both in and outside the classroom – to unleash their potential.

Honoring a Lifetime of Service

Today’s blog post comes from Communities In Schools of Charlotte-Mecklenburg Volunteer Coordinator Angela Yoo.

In 25 years, Mike Munao mentored and tutored more than 30 students, giving over 1,000 volunteer hours.

In this season of gratitude, Communities In Schools of Charlotte-Mecklenburg is thankful for the dedication and commitment of Mike Munao, who has recently celebrated his 25th anniversary as a volunteer! Mike began as a volunteer tutor and was one of our first volunteers in Charlotte. Over the years he has tutored and mentored more than 30 different students at two schools, giving over 1,000 volunteer hours. Mike also served as a board member of the local affiliate from 1992 to 1993.

When I asked what Mike thought made him successful as a volunteer, he said, “My philosophy of tutoring is three-fold: to help my students understand the material required for them to advance, to provide examples in real life as to how this newly acquired information will apply, and to make sure they have a positive role model in life.” View full article »

Today’s Site Coordinator Snapshot is by Network Communications Specialist Erica Rafferty.

Nancy Essary

Communities In Schools Site Coordinator Nancy Essary can sum up the value of her work in a single moment.

It’s funny how a single moment can shape your point of view, your beliefs and sometimes your life. For Nancy Essary, a site coordinator with Communities In Schools of East Texas for the past five and a half years, that moment happened on the first day of school this year.

Originally, my post about Nancy Essary was about how she spends every summer with Communities In Schools delivering lunches across Diana, Texas to low-income students whose next meal is not always certain. An undeniably powerful story, you can watch a video of Nancy telling the story at the bottom of this post.

But when she told me about the first day of school this year, and of a single, simple moment that she will never forget, I knew that, too, was a story to be shared. View full article »